Semaj Life Lessons
It is unhealthy to continue to be in love with someone is no longer in love with you. Time for you to get your heart aligned with what your head knows is the right and healthy thing to do.
Now is the time to identify who cares and allocate your TEMPTIONS (time and emotions) accordingly.
You must process sexual attraction through the lens of HEAD (Sound Judgement) and HEART (Good Feelings – without Emotional Attachments)
There is a reason why the head is located above the heart – sound reasoning should always take priority over good feelings. Condition oneself to accept the good feelings without allowing unhealthy emotional attachment. When you bring your head down to the level of your heart, we call that rationalization. When you elevate your heart up to the level of your head, that is maturity and wisdom.
know when to hold, but more importantly, Know when to let go.
In order to hit your target It is not just the strength with which you pull the bow, It’s also knowing when to let go:
“When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be.” – Lao Tzu
“You cannot convince someone to see something that they do not want to see, no matter how much you know it would improve their lives. You have to love and accept them exactly as they are today. If you cannot do that, you have to let them go and find their own way, in their own time, if they ever choose to do so.
Otherwise, you’ll be giving them the power over your happiness, too.” – Doe Zantamata
This is relevant, and practical reasoning. Awesome! Just not always easy to do (the whole head and heart thing).
It is rarely easy to do the “right thing”. Note my inference, “When you bring your head down to the level of your heart, we call that rationalization. When you elevate your heart up to the level of your head, that is maturity and wisdom.