Dr. Leahcim Semaj
Psychologist | Author | Social Philosopher | Spiritual Guide | Management Consultant

Prelude To The Transition
Over the years I have had many discussions with individuals on the issue of career change. We have been able to observe a variety of patterns. Some years ago I taught a course in Career Guidance. In this course, each participation was asked to chart their own career development beginning with the first idea they ever had about a career or a job. Next the first job they ever had, and then chart the shifts and the reason for the variety of jobs they have had, culminating in the present position that they occupy. They were then asked to analyze the information to look at the processes that brought about the various shifts they made in their careers. One thing was certain, a lot of them attributed most of the changes to forces beyond their control.

Over the years I have also had many conversations with individuals who had reached the end of the road with their careers. Many had entered careers for a variety of reasons, none of which they were presently comfortable with. Some due to pressure from parents, others due to certain expectations they had about the job before they actually got into it. But whatever the reason they were now at the point were they needed to make some new decisions. Many of these people were financially very successful and despite this were extremely unfulfilled. The nights were getting shorter and the days were getting longer. They were no longer excited about going back to work each day.

The End of The Road
I remember one case about a woman had indicated that to this point she had taken every course in banking. She had done very well and occupied many senior positions. However she was now at the point were she no longer wanted to take 2 briefcases home with her after work every day. She yearned for the option to go home and watch television and eat dinner with her husband like normal people. She indicated that after taking all the various banking courses, the only other 2 courses that she now wanted to take were in ‘making drapes’ and another ‘how to cook Chinese food’. I also remember the case of a gentleman who was very successful in the financial sector, almost to the level of vice president. But he had some yearning desires and he really felt that this was not what he wanted to do. However, he did not know how to go about making the shift. Even more complicated; how do you walk away from a good salary? How do you explain to your friends that after all these years you believe that this is not it?

We realize that these incidents are more common than one would expect. The issue is that many people are not brave enough to come to grips with it. In fact the reality of career planning is that this is a life long process. Career planning beginnings with choosing an occupation, often times bases on fantasy or insufficient information. The next issue is getting a job, after that you start growing in your job. Then you realize a variety of options and you really have to start thinking about changing careers. In the past many people, when they reach this point would just concede and say this is all I can do. The options or the choices are just not there, and the cost of starting over is much too great. So they would probably just suffer in silence for the rest of their lives. Today we are seeing less of this. We are seeing more people willing to take on the risk, trying new things and moving into areas that would meet their satisfaction.

How do we help people to translate this choice? How do we help people to make this transition with as little pain as possible? We begin by helping them to identify that we can easily divide life into 3 stages.

Stage 1 – The learning stage. Birth to 30 where for most people they are now acquiring the skills, talent and the experience to really start to shape their career.
Stage 2 This is 30 to 60 for most people, employment is the dominate feature here. Beyond that we have
Stage 3 – We call this self employment because the reality of what you do exceeds the whole issue of the work world as defined by employment. We now know that the life expectancy goes well beyond what is considered the average age of retirement. In future blogs we will deal with this as a separate issue. Preparing for life beyond retirement needs some very serious consideration.

The Sankore Professional Development Institute

You can use the courses offered in Sankore Professional Development Institute to enhance and guide your Career Change. SPDI offers a variety of courses that can be instrumental in guiding and enhancing your career change. Here’s how you can leverage these resources effectively: https://aboveorbeyondjm.com/sankore/


1. Self-Assessment and Career Exploration

The first step in a successful career change is understanding yourself—your strengths, interests, and values. Courses such as “Personal Development and Self-Discovery” or similar programs offered at Sankore can help you:


2. Upskilling and Reskilling

Transitioning to a new field often requires developing new skills or enhancing existing ones. Sankore’s professional development courses can help you:


3. Building Emotional Intelligence and Resilience

Changing careers can be emotionally challenging. Sankore’s offerings, like “Developing Emotional Intelligence” or “Resiliency – Building Strength to Thrive in a Changing World,” provide essential support by:


4. Career Transition Planning

The institute’s courses can guide you in creating a structured approach to your career change. Programs like “Inspiration and Motivation in the Workplace” or “Flexibility and Adaptability in the World of Work” can help you:


5. Networking and Mentorship Opportunities

Sankore’s professional development ecosystem can connect you with like-minded individuals, mentors, and industry experts. By participating in these courses, you can:


6. Preparing for Entrepreneurship

If your career change involves becoming self-employed or starting a business, Sankore’s courses on topics like “Care and Respect for Others” or other leadership-related modules can:


7. Enhancing Your Encore Post Retirement Career

For those transitioning to careers post-retirement, Sankore offers guidance on meaningful pursuits during later stages of life. Programs focusing on legacy-building or personal fulfillment can help retirees:


Take Action Now

Visit the Sankore Professional Development Institute and explore courses that align with your career transition goals. Start with a course that resonates with your immediate needs, whether it’s self-discovery, resilience, or skill-building, and use the insights gained to craft a clear path to success in your new career.

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If this issue resonates with where you are in life, let’s talk. Book a 1-on-1 consultation and begin your transformation journey today. Interested in bringing this message to your organization or audience? Dr. Semaj is available for keynotes, workshops, and custom seminars.
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A Note to My Readers

I write not to convince or convert, but simply to share insights gained from years of observation, study, and experience. What I offer here are perspectives — reflections meant to inspire thought, not debates.

If my words resonate with you, I welcome that. If they do not, I invite you to simply take what serves you and leave the rest.

My consultation sessions are quite different. They are sacred spaces where I partner with individuals who are seeking clarity, transformation, and growth in their own lives. If that is what you desire, I would be honored to assist you.

Until then, may you continue your journey with curiosity and grace.

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